We're friends with hearts intertwined

Friends have hearts that intertwined so that somehow and someway, we can know each other and get along well. It occurs to me sometimes, just how magical it all is. To be able to meet each other, to be able to get closer, to be able to let them into your life, to be able to tell them secrets and trust them. It's like really amazing to me, how strangers can become friends.

I admit though. I'm someone that will probably die without having any friends in the world. I'm one that can't live without friends. Friends probably make up 50% of my life. It's really cold and lonely just to think of living in such a big and enormous world all a l o n e . Having no one to talk to, having no one to pour out all your troubles, having no one to tell your secrets/crushes, having no one to go shopping with, having no one to sms to with your phone. Just think about it. It's really scary isn't it. Don't say you'll have your lover or boyfriend. They might leave you one day, throwing you behind, saying they can't stand you anymore. It'll be harsh, but one thing for sure, it'll be harsher when you realize you have no one else left beside you, no one else supporting you and comforting you by ensuring that everything is okay.

And those with no friends out there, you'll be asking why. Why am i the one without friends? Why am i the only out-cast? Why can't i be in a clique and join in all the fun? Why can't i fit in? It's not because you're ugly. It's not because you're poor. It's not because you're smart. It's simply because you try too hard. You try way too hard to fit in that you come across as a hypocrite. As someone that's not 'real' enough for people to trust and believe in. We search for friends with the same hobbies, same mindset and most importantly, those that love us for who we are. You don't go to any clique and just try to fit in. You won't succeed because you're just putting on a fake front that suits the clique. It's not who you are, it's not the real you. You don't go to a clique and wants to join them because they're famous or powerful or rich. You don't go searching for friends in that manner. You'll be failing so badly. You'll fall hard and realize finally that, 'hey! I have no one here now, no more friends and no more cliques that i can try to enter.' That's the way things will be in the end. And then when you eventually decide to be yourself and be who you are and find a clique or group of friends, no one will want to communicate with you anymore. Because in their mind, they have long disqualified you. Disqualified you because they know you're a hypocrite. Even if you have decided to change, or is changing, or maybe have changed, they won't accept you anymore. They won't accept you anymore because they can't let themselves believe you, believe that you can be a part of them. At least, not anymore.

It's a hard fall that you will find yourself in. A hard fall because you can't pick yourself up and it'll take such a long time for you to pick yourself up and start making new friends that love your present and don't know about your past.

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